Article # 22
Based on the interview with Barbara-Lynn Taylor, M.Ed. on
“Raising Your Kids”
Aired on WXII-12
Wednesday, July 28, 2004
SCHOOL
SUCCESS TAKES TEAMWORK: GETTING OFF TO A GOOD START
from “School
Success Takes Teamwork”, Part Four of the video-based
parenting program, Successful
Parenting
The
teachers in this area go back to work in the next few days,
to be involved in meetings, attend in-service workshops, organize
their rooms and materials, and get ready to teach your children.
They are transitioning from the summer break to a new school
year … and we parents should be, too.
But
even before we drive to school that first morning, wrestle
with that first math assignment or attend that first football
game, we should make a commitment to our children’s
school achievement this year and we should be sure we transmit
that to them. By our words and our actions, we must convey
our own value that a solid education is vital. We need to
say, out loud, “A good education is extremely important
to your future.” And we must back up our statements
by insisting our children attend school every day possible,
by making sure our children have and use study time each day,
by not keeping our children out late for social events on
weeknights, and by being there to supervise and support the
homework process.
The
students in our area will be back in class next week. To get
our children ready, we should:
1. Make sure they have appropriate clothes that fit, as the
children have undoubtedly grown.
2. Be prepared to get them the supplies they will need.
3. Start moving their bedtimes earlier so their bodies will
adjust to getting up earlier.
4. Talk with our children about how they have grown up since
last year and what expectations they might face this year.
Once
the school bell has rung in 2004-05, we parents should make
every effort to attend the open houses offered at our children’s
schools. By so doing, we’ll be able to learn about their
school and their classrooms, meet their teachers, and hear
a bit about what they’ll be studying. This is an excellent
time for us to set a positive tone with our children’s
teachers, setting the stage for constructive teamwork. It’s
much better to be on friendly, positive terms right from the
beginning, especially if problems arise later. Parents and
teachers, as well as the students, are much more likely to
function effectively as a team with the students’ best
interest at heart if we have already bonded as partners in
their education.
If we’re unable to attend open house, we should make
a sincere, vigorous effort to greet the teachers briefly,
either by phone, e-mail, a note, or in person in the first
couple of weeks of school. Teachers need to know that we parents
are onboard.
We
parents are our children’s most powerful advocates and
it is critical that we not expect anyone else to do it for
us. Usually important information such as health issues, medications,
custody arrangements, difficult circumstances such as a child
who is grieving over the loss of a loved one, and so forth
is shared in each child’s cumulative folder or between
last year’s and this year’s teachers, but, unfortunately,
sometimes details may fall through the cracks. So, it is up
to us parents to be sure the teachers have been made aware
of any special information.
Lastly,
we parents should look for ways we can be involved with our
children’s schools. Not only does parent participation
strengthen the school as a whole, but it has been proven that
our own children personally benefit from our connection. They
profit by the example we set and the proof we give that their
school is important. Some parents are able to come to the
school during the day to assist in classrooms or to chaperone
field trips. Many of us are not able to do that because of
work or family commitments, but we can still be involved.
We can help in the evenings or on weekends by making items
for teachers to use in their lessons or on bulletin boards,
by making food for parties, gathering information or making
exhibits to supplement units the students are studying, by
serving on the landscape or beautification committees, or
by assisting with “one-shot-deals” like the Science
Fair, Young Author’s Day, Odyssey of the Mind, or Field
Day. Look around. Ask around. You’re bound to find out
something that needs doing. Of course, we should all make
a point of joining and being as active as possible in PTA.
It’s
a new year. It’s another step in our children’s
growth. Let’s be ready. Let’s do it right. Let’s
do it together. Let’s actively join our children’s
education teams because… school success takes teamwork!